Gemini: Thursday, April 27, 2023
Christopher Renstrom2023-04-27T03:45:00-06:00Someone tries to shift the terms of an agreement in his or her favor. Don't be so obliging. It's not as innocent as it's been made to appear.
Someone tries to shift the terms of an agreement in his or her favor. Don't be so obliging. It's not as innocent as it's been made to appear.
It's unnerving juggling possibilities, but you won't have to do it for much longer. As soon as one solidifies (May 3d), you can let the others go.
Put hurt feelings aside and get to the bottom of what's amiss. You'll find that it's not as bad as all that and that the other party is truly sorry.
You could kick yourself for making the same mistake twice, but what's done is done. Chalk it up to experience and move on.
Keeping the peace is beginning to show the strain. Stop trying to preserve something that's time has passed. Let it go.
Put insecurities on the table. Nobody's fooling anyone. If anything you'll discover you have more in common than you knew.
The trick to winning cooperation is to agree in part. This allows you to gently nudge people in the direction that you want them to go.
Despite efforts to keep someone out of your business, this person is drawn in anyway. Ironically this provides the solution to your troubles.
Hoping something unpleasant will go away on its own is wishful thinking. Take the bull by the horns. Matters are less precarious when dealt with head on.
Stop looking for an exit strategy that doesn't exist. You have no choice but to fulfill an obligation. Not only will you meet the challenge; you will master it.