Aries: Saturday, July 17, 2021
Christopher Renstrom2021-07-17T03:45:00-06:00It doesn't matter who's right or wrong. What matters is finding a fit. Establish common ground and everything falls into place.
It doesn't matter who's right or wrong. What matters is finding a fit. Establish common ground and everything falls into place.
A faction at work is entrenched in its position. Try some one-on-one negotiating. This should shift the consensus.
You have a chance to rectify a situation, but you need to take the initiative. Go ahead. The other person won't bite.
What you ask is a tall order, but you also know it's better to tackle the obstacle now then try to clamber over it later.
How can you be supportive when a friend won't follow your advice? Maybe you're not listening to what s/he wants? Start again and you'll get somewhere.
Don't try to control a situation you don't understand. Let events unfold on their own and see where they lead. You'll like how they play out.
You discover that more people have to sign off on a decision than previously thought. Yes, it's complicated but the end result will be worth it.
If you're still pining away for someone beyond reach then guess what? S/he's beyond reach. Set your sights on someone closer to home.
People are as entitled to their opinions as you are to yours. You can exchange them - and even resolve differences - without the conversation deteriorating into a fight.
Don't feel guilty about holding colleagues accountable. Your complaints are justified. People need to get their act together. Yours is.