Resentment and anger can take on a life and drama of their own if you let them. Like a rash that becomes more inflamed with the scratching these emotions feed off of your pain and despair. Our society doesn’t provide very good lessons for dealing with heartbreak. It preaches the gospel of revenge sex, applauds nasty Twitter exchanges, and even goads you into making a public spectacle of your romantic train wreck. There’s no satisfaction in doing any of these things which is why the Sun/Neptune trine on Nov. 3 is so healing. A Sun/Neptune trine invites you to forgive and let go, to lose the grudge and reclaim your heart. Let bygones be bygones and move on. You don’t need the empty emotional calories that resentment and anger bring.